Black Women and the Perfectionism Trap
It’s no wonder then that we try to affect how we are externally perceived, to give ourselves a fighting chance of proving who we are on the inside. And thus, the perfectionist trap is locked and loaded.
It’s no wonder then that we try to affect how we are externally perceived, to give ourselves a fighting chance of proving who we are on the inside. And thus, the perfectionist trap is locked and loaded.
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