Black Women and the Perfectionism Trap
It’s no wonder then that we try to affect how we are externally perceived, to give ourselves a fighting chance of proving who we are on the inside. And thus, the perfectionist trap is locked and loaded.
natural hair fears
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Code-switching and Natural Hair
She slips in quietly, into our small talk, meetings, and discussions. She’s not mean, in fact quite the opposite. But, she is the survival tactic that society has taught us is needed to keep us professionally thriving and safe.
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Transitioning to natural hair–why wait?
Your frame of reference to many things is shaped when you are a child, whether you are 25 or 55. Transitioning to natural hair can…
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Natural Hair Rules Made To Be Broken
I’ve been natural for eight years. It hasn’t always been smooth, but I have learned not only how to care for my hair, but also…
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Overcoming Natural Hair Fears
Whether you are 25 or 55, your frame of reference to many things is shaped when you are a child. I grew up with The…
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Your Natural Hair Relationship
Your natural hair relationship is like the early days of that with a lover–clumsy and a little awkward. But spend some quality time communicating and…
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Starting A Natural Hair Journey
Long before starting a natural hair journey, I was in a 30 year rut with a relaxer. Every six weeks, I had a Saturday date…
